coping

in my search for trying to find out how to navigate this world it came to me on my husband's birthday this year...people can't cope. it has nothing to do with my husband or his birthday.  I just observed some people while we were out and about.
I am not sure why folks aren't taught how to deal with difficult emotions.  maybe it's because as children we are navigating feelings that the adults raising us don't understand for themselves.
so I don't know one primary reason why people are damaged but I do know that people are not often taught how to cope with negative emotions.
people are also angry. people feel entitled and are not equipped to put someone else first.  if they feel dis served then they lash out.